A Hungry Boy

I’ve forgotten how hungry teenagers are and have been astonished at just how much food the young people I have been with lately manage to eat.  I wonder how their mothers and grandmothers cope?  My friend, Nkulu, is the hungriest of them all – when I met him for tea a few weeks ago he had a huge plate of macaroni (before going home for supper) while I battled to finish a scone.  When I think about it, he must be related to Dizzy.  Anyway, I wrote this story about him recently – so this is a rather random post with a very tenuous link to food….  However, it is also about reaping what you sow. I have been connected to these kids for many years and hope that I have planted a little abundance in their lives – I have certainly received lots of love and much joy in return for a small effort.

“I’m a person who believes I can be anything I want to be” says Nkululeko Mdladla cheerfully.  Being named for South Africa’s most historic moment certainly helps!  Born in April 1994, Nkululueko is a ‘freedom baby’. Named by his late father, Nkululeko translates as freedom.

Nkulu waterfall Entabeni Hlatikulu RES.

The full moon, fried mushrooms, mountain streams and bright green are a few of Nkululeko’s favourite things.  Quite likely, these things were his father’s favourites too, despite South African being a very different place before the 1990’s.  He certainly remembers his Dad gathering wild mushrooms for supper.

fort nottingham mushrooms.res

Nowadays, Nkululeko has other things to worry about rather than racism.  “Life on Earth is great in 2013”, he says “but what will be left in 2020? We are running out of natural resources and it is up to our generation to use resources wisely to ensure there is a sustainable future for all.”

While Nkululelo did not have to toy-toyi to free Mandela, he did join the March for Climate Justice at COP17.  For many years, he has been an active member of his school eco-club and thrives on the camaraderie and sense of purpose this creates. “I feel free when I am surrounded by people I can trust, who show me love and give me support.  Freedom is a gift from others.”

Nkulu at mandela monument res

He acknowledges that being unfree in other ways, as was the case during apartheid, would influence one’s thinking.  “It must be hard to be a shining star when there are so many restrictions.  I can’t imagine what it was like not to be able to go where you wanted or do something you felt like doing.  I hear the elders talking about those apartheid days – it seems amazing and strange.”

When he was younger, he did worry about not finishing school, but his mother always encouraged him, saying “You young people are so lucky now.”  Nkululeko, in Grade 12 this year, is very proud of his school, Shea O’Connor Combined, which promotes values of inclusivity, tolerance and kindness.


Last year, Nkululeko was part of the team mentored by Caversham Press which made a short movie around these themes entitled “Our Place in the World”   Nkululeko intends becoming a filmmaker when he finishes school. “When you are relaxed, watching a movie you feel free. I want to make people forget their worries for a time and dream.” Combining his love of photography and nature means he has an opportunity to influence attitudes about the issues he is passionate about. “I’ve always liked being in front of the camera,” he laughs, “but now I have discovered it is even more fun to be the one taking the pictures.”

Nkulu photographing Acalypha RES

Everyone has a right to feel free. “Even plants have a right to water and care and animals have right to live.” he concludes.

Nkulu hands and Boston

So, there you go – my hungry friend. Suddenly I feel like a big mushroom sandwich. With lots of mustard.

4 Comments Add yours

  1. cg58 says:

    Nikki I love your story and it is about planting; seeds of awareness of our fragile earth, inspiration, love and connectedness are the rich ones you are sowing in fertile soil. I feel very privilaged to have spent time with some of the wonderful young people you have worked with, those seeds are sprouting into sturdy young plants!


    1. Thanks Christeen. What a delight to share my delight with you and thanks for all the love and support.


  2. I was thinking about all the 19 year olds today, and what a vastly different South Africa they were born into. Very hard to explain some of the inhumane parts of the previous thirty years. Lovely photos of a young man, his thoughts, his words, his world and his aspirations. Nicky your seeds of a greener world have definitely found fertile soil in many many Young Midlanders. This was very evident on our recent weekend stay in the Lidgetton Valley interacting with many young service providers.


    1. Thank you Meriel, for lovely words. Especially from someone who has done such incredible work with young people inspiring them to fall in love with Nature too. Stay turned for interesting thing happening in Lidgetton!


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